When a loved one receives a dementia diagnosis, accepting it is not always easy. Many seniors dismiss symptoms as “just getting older” and avoid talking about what is really happening. Some may even turn down help or skip medical appointments. Recognizing the signs of denial can help families step in with care and support at the right time.
1. Blaming Memory Loss on Aging
Forgetting names, losing track of conversations, or leaving food cooking unattended are not always simple “senior moments.” Often, these signs are brushed off out of embarrassment or pride.
2. Avoiding the Topic
Some people quickly change the subject when memory concerns are raised. Gentle and calm conversations, focused on care and safety rather than confrontation, can make it easier to talk about what is happening.
3. Becoming Defensive or Irritable
It can be hard to accept that independence may change. Loved ones may react with anger or frustration when memory issues are mentioned, often followed by excuses like “I’m just old” or “Everyone forgets sometimes.”
4. Refusing Assistance with Daily Needs
Struggling with tasks like bathing, cleaning, or meal prep but insisting “I don’t need help” is a common sign of denial. Even when challenges are clear, many seniors resist support to hold onto their independence.
5. Insisting on Driving
Driving can feel like a major symbol of independence. However, dementia can affect awareness and reaction time. Seniors may become lost on familiar routes yet still insist they are safe to drive.
6. Not Recognizing There’s a Problem
Some individuals truly do not see their memory or behavior changes. This lack of awareness, often caused by brain changes, is very common in people living with Alzheimer’s and other forms of dementia.
7. Questioning the Diagnosis
Even after thorough testing, some seniors doubt the diagnosis or the doctor’s judgment. Seeking a second opinion can sometimes help families feel more confident about the diagnosis.
Supporting a Loved One in Denial
Living at home is important for many seniors, but dementia can make daily life more challenging. With the right help, seniors can remain safe, comfortable, and supported.
At Divine Favour Healthcare Staffing Inc., we provide compassionate caregivers who assist with personal care, meal preparation, transportation, companionship, and dementia support. Whether your loved one needs help for a few hours or ongoing care, our trained staff is here to make life easier for seniors and peace of mind for families.
We serve communities across Ontario, including key areas like the GTA, Niagara Region, Ottawa, and beyond. Our ability to provide care depends on both your needs and the availability of our trusted caregivers in your area. Reach out today to explore how we can start supporting your family.
Contact us today at 647-766-5394 or visit https://lnkd.in/g7chHh5G to book a free, no-pressure assessment and to learn how we can support your family with trusted dementia care services.